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Friday, November 8, 2013

Intimate or..."Into your mate"

 Marital (Sexual) Intimacy

Those with the most satisfying intimate relations are:
~Married couples
~The middle ages

Men usually want physical intimacy first and then as a result feel safe, care, and a closeness to the other person.Women usually need to feel safety, care and closeness first and then as a result they would physical intimacy. Sexual intimacy in a marriage is about the other person and satisfying their needs. It is should an act of love and selflessness.
Because men reach their climax faster than a woman, the woman can start to become  unsatisfied with their sexual intimacy and can thus feeling simply used instead of loved. Intimacy is very important and if their are clear defined boundaries that are not crossed, there can create a bond.

Some challenges that can arise are:
~Women are less satisfied
~Criticism for self or other
~Avoid sexual contact from fear
~Feeling unloved

Some opportunities are:
~Learn to think and care more about others
~More time together
~Close and united
~More opportunities to express yourself
~Forget about yourself and be selfless.
~Learn to please your spouse





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